A newborn is a canvas which can be coloured variously – from dazzlingly coloured to heavy grey. A newborn is a seedling whose growth can either take its own course but can even so be facilitated. The seedling needs enough water and sun (which are representative for love and care) otherwise it will bear bitter fruits when it’s fully grown. The rule is simple: As you sow, you shall mow. The temptation of influencing a person and forming him in one’s own image often exists since it is hard to accept that people belonging to the same bloodline might develop into a completely different direction. However, happiness is the number one goal in everyone’s life and the sooner you accept this fact, the better it will be for everyone eventually. In the end, the question whether a thread that links child and parent will be cut over time or not, can only be answered by yourself.